founder of naked leader
Naked Leader Week – 329 – Monday 12 October 2009
Are you in Fallout?
Time to read – 2 minutes
Are you, or someone you know, in a professional dispute at the moment – with another company, or another person?
Or perhaps you have fallen out with a family member, or friend?
If so, do the following:
1 Know where you want to go – The Outcome
What exact results do you and they want? (Not what you don’t)
2 Know where you are now – Ownership and Honesty
Put yourself in their shoes and replay the situation from their point of view – as if you were them
Have a truth in the room session where each person/party speaks and is allowed to do so without interruption. And the person / people not speaking – listens
3 Know what you have to do, to get to where you want to go – Choices and True Decisions
Agree that you will reach a resolution (that is the WHAT, not the HOW)
Start with what you have in common – what you agree on, what unites you, not what you disagree on, what separates you
4 Do it!
And as you do, no-one leaves the room until it is resolved
With my best wishes