founder of naked leader
Are you in ownership of your life?
When to do – A Lifetime
Do you take 100% ownership of all that you say and do?
If you do, you are in total ownership of your life.
If you do not, then you are not.
Action – starting today, for one week, never say anything about people close to you (team, family, friends) behind their backs, that you would not say to their faces.
Simple – but not easy!
With my love and best wishes
Poll : In your organisation, do people tend to “stab” each other in the back, or in the stomach (to their faces)
The way to get respect off people is to say things to their faces if you have a grievance otherwise there is every chance you could ruin a team's morale by saying the wrong thing at the wrong time to a member of the team who may well pass on to their colleague. Sometimes you have to hold your tongue for the good of the team.
I love to be in control although that's not always possible as there are those heat of the moment times when you lose it. That is a difficult position to be in when your aim is to be in control.
I often speak for other people and believe that is taking ownership and leading from the front in my eyes. There are people I know who criticise others but I have never done that behind someone's back. Only face to face when I feel it's justified.