founder of naked leader
Are you in ownership of your life?
When to do – A Lifetime
Do you take 100% ownership of all that you say and do?
If you do, you are in total ownership of your life.
If you do not, then you are not.
Action – starting today, for one week, never say anything about people close to you (team, family, friends) behind their backs, that you would not say to their faces.
Simple – but not easy!
With my love and best wishes
David
X
The way to get respect off people is to say things to their faces if you have a grievance otherwise there is every chance you could ruin a team's morale by saying the wrong thing at the wrong time to a member of the team who may well pass on to their colleague. Sometimes you have to hold your tongue for the good of the team.
I love to be in control although that's not always possible as there are those heat of the moment times when you lose it. That is a difficult position to be in when your aim is to be in control.
I often speak for other people and believe that is taking ownership and leading from the front in my eyes. There are people I know who criticise others but I have never done that behind someone's back. Only face to face when I feel it's justified.