founder of naked leader
Be careful what you whinge for
The more you whinge, the more likely what you are whinging about will come true.
Because when you believe something to be true, you see the world in that way (your mind – i.e. you – cannot tell the difference between something that happens in reality and something you imagine with emotional intensity).
Focus on what you don’t want and you will get more of what you don’t want – the self-defeating spiral.
Focus on what you do want and you will get more of what you do want – the self-fulfilling spiral.
You understand I am not suggesting, advising or guiding which you focus on, that’s your choice.
With my love and best wishes
PS. Please comment or whinge below!